> can't imagine doing anything social in the evenings after work
So this is key. Start using your God given high voltage brain and start imagining. Then plan. Then implement.
Looks? Effendi, you see the most gorgeous women with the most unlikely males all the time. I wouldn't worry about that even a tiny bit.
> I did, however, perform stand-up comedy twice last week, at two different venues. Both times went pretty well, but I don't feel compelled to do it again anytime soon.
A sense of humor is one of the most attractive qualities in a man to a woman. You are already set. You are smart, you are funny, you have a fucking job.
Have you considered you are ungrateful to the Universe or God or the Spaghetti Monster? :-)
So this is key. Start using your God given high voltage brain and start imagining. Then plan. Then implement.
Looks? Effendi, you see the most gorgeous women with the most unlikely males all the time. I wouldn't worry about that even a tiny bit.
> I did, however, perform stand-up comedy twice last week, at two different venues. Both times went pretty well, but I don't feel compelled to do it again anytime soon.
A sense of humor is one of the most attractive qualities in a man to a woman. You are already set. You are smart, you are funny, you have a fucking job.
Have you considered you are ungrateful to the Universe or God or the Spaghetti Monster? :-)